How to Love a Girl

 Sometimes it feels like guys and girls speak different languages when it comes to love. If you think that the special girl in your life isn't getting the message that you love her, you have to make an extra effort to show her how you feel. It's all about finding a balance between giving her love and affection and accepting her individuality. If you want to know how to love a girl, see Step 1 to get started.

1.Be affectionate. Most girls love getting showered with affection and compliments from a guy they care about. Some girls can be insecure, and love getting reassured a lot. To be affectionate, just give her a gentle touch, put your arm around her, hold her hand, or do whatever you can do to give her a little bit of physical touch. This doesn't mean you have to use everything you have on her, pick the right moments to let her know you care and it'll mean a lot more than having your arm around her for four hours.

• Giving her a little kiss on the cheek or a squeeze of the hand is another way to be affectionate.
• If holding hands isn't your thing, you can put your hand on the small of her back when you're walking.

2.Be supportive. If you want to love your girl, then you have to support her as much as you can. Being supportive means anything from showing up to her soccer games to encouraging her to apply for a job even if she's worried she won't get an interview. You should be there to lift her up, not put her down, and let her know you think she's amazing and capable of anything she puts her mind to. This doesn't mean you have to follow her around and be her cheerleader at all times, she should support you too, but it does mean that you should let her know that you will help her succeed in any way she wants.

• Sometimes, this may mean just supporting her when she is upset, sad, or confused. You have to be there for her during the good times and the bad.